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I have gotten a larger reponse from this note than I expected. But I
want to claify a couple of things. First, I wrote every word on this
page. Secondly, You have complete control over your mind, body, and
heart. So for someone to just use you up, mistreat you, and abuse you
would require you allowing them to do it. That does not mean you stop
your search or hold back because of what the previous man did. What you
need to do is start acting like a man do what you do but without your
feelings involved. First you compile a checklist of everything you want
your future mate to bring to the table. You should prefer that a person
is on your level or higher. Then when you meet someone you go through
your check list of the surface things that your looking for like a job,
a home, a car, and does not have 500 kids. And if there is one thing
that is not on your check list then you leave that person alone and
move on. If he passes the check list then you give 100% of yourself
minus the sex and emotion. And at the end of the day if you feel like
your coming up short, your not getting back that 100%. Then you move
on. And that's it. Stop lowering your standards thinking a person is
going to either get better with time or wake up one day and realize
that your the person that he is meant to be with and will start
treating you like a queen. It's not going to happen. Once again you
control your mind, body, and heart and also who you give it to. By
doing this you allow the man's actions to speak for him. I have found
that to many women are so quick to fall in love with someones words and
then when the sand castle is washed away it's the mans fault, but your
the only one to blame.